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Vanessa May

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Vanessa has written three books about grief.
Her first book 'Love Untethered' is for readers who have experienced a significant loss.
Her second book 'Supporting Your Grieving Client' is for the wellness practitioners who might work with them.
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Her third book 'When Grief Takes Everything: A Survival Guide to Devastating Loss' continues Vanessa’s own story of further losses, as well as offering guidance based on her experience as a holistic grief coach. 


My hope is that my books might help others who have suffered devastating loss and that they will be able to relate to my story and find some of the advice offered to be of benefit. I hope too that my books help to raise awareness about the true nature of deep grief so that those who are grieving are always given the compassion and understanding they need.

 'Love Untethered'
by
Vanessa May 

Available from Amazon 
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'I felt understood and less alone in my deep sadness after reading this powerful book.'

' Superbly written, honest, heart-breaking, inspiring, and deeply moving.'

'I can honestly say that this book has touched me and spoken to me more than any other.'

 
Theresa Cheung, Sunday Times bestselling author:
'Vanessa May has written a book that can truly help all those who are grieving find deep meaning, comfort and strength.
Highly recommended.'


'When Grief Takes Everything'
by
Vanessa May 

Available from Amazon

This story will open your heart and give you invaluable resources, tools, and perspective to start healing it. It is both a powerful narrative and empathetic guide for anyone experiencing loss.’

Some moments in life call for a trustworthy handbook written by an expert. If you are living in such a moment, this is the book you need to read. It may just save your life.’

‘A raw, profound and deeply compassionate guide for those navigating unimaginable loss’

‘Vanessa’s personal journey and hard-won wisdom offer both solace and strength to anyone wondering how to survive the unthinkable.’

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Love Untethered

'Love Untethered' charts Vanessa's experience of the devastating and life-changing loss of her son.  For anyone who is going through a bereavement, (or knows someone who is), 'Love Untethered' could provide a lifeline. It’s an honest and brave account of how you go on after someone important has died. Based on both her personal and professional experience, Vanessa provides advice on making the grieving process a little more bearable when your world has been shattered beyond recognition. She also highlights something often overlooked - that grief affects us profoundly, not only emotionally but sometimes physically and spiritually too.
'Love Untethered' offers hope that, although immensely challenging and not something you ever get over, it is possible to survive something as terrible as the death of your child and to find meaning and purpose in life as you live on without them. A life now sustained by untethered love.

'Love Untethered' is available from Amazon 

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When Grief Takes Everything: A Survival Guide to Devasting Loss

Two years after losing her beloved son, Vanessa May lost her husband and father in the same three-week period during the Covid pandemic. In this book, she charts her quest to make sense of what has happened to her, as well as sharing the stories of
six other inspirational women who have experienced loss. Finally, she offers guidance, tools and resources drawn from her experience as a holistic grief coach and educator.

This relatable and helpful survival guide will help bereaved people to feel less isolated in their grief.

When Grief Takes Everything is a book for anyone who has experienced great loss: the mother who buried her child, the widow who lost her future, and all those others who find themselves unwillingly walking the path of grief.

'When Grief Takes Everything' is available from Amazon 

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